Anonymous asked:

You said you got your degree in psych, and I know this is going to seem like a stupid question but I'm almost 20 and I have never had a boyfriend, been kissed, flirted with, asked out, nothing. I mean, its not like I've never talked to a guy before, I feel like there is something a bit abnormal about my situation..

Not at all. There’s no age limit or developmental milestones in dating, it’s pretty much just chance. Some people start at 10, some at 80. Some never at all. It’s a common situation at any age, so don’t feel weird about it. Focus on yourself and be open to new experiences.¬†You find things when you’re not looking for them, as cliche as that is.